Sunday, April 26, 2009
I told my husband before that we just try to come by at SSN office and I'll just bring all my documents like my passport but he refused me and told me that he called them asking if i could get one and they replied to him that i can't get one unless i have my green card. So i never beg him cause i know that all he believe was that i could process it when i received my green card. After two months that i arrive here, i met Joyce through friendster and i then ask her about getting an SSN. She told me that i could get an SSN using my marriage license and my departure record including my passport with visa in it. She ask me if when my departure record expire and then she let me read the information on how to get an SSN when your a k1 visa holder. When my husband got home that day, i told him about it and let him read the information that i had read and ask me if when my departure record expires. I told him that 15 days starts tomorrow before it expires cause it was said there that 14 days before expiration was the deadline and after that they can no longer give me an SSN card. So i still have a day left before it would happen and then he decided to visit the SSN office the following day and try to process. I kept praying that night that i could process my SSN card.
When we get there i felt nervous and my mind had a lot of questions like what if they don't let me process my SSN and what should we do then? Finally our number was called and the lady ask us and i told her that i want to get an SSN card. She ask about my passport and my marriage license cause we told her that we're married and i am a k1 visa holder. But when she saw the date of my departure record, she said that it was about to expire and they can't give me one. She told us that by the time my card will be made, my departure record date will expires. She then give us a statement that said about the reasons why they can't give an SSN card for me. I felt really disappointed and wanted to cry cause i don't know what would happen then during my interview. Joyce called me that afternoon and ask about what happen cause i told her that we'll try visit the SSN office. I told her that i was really disappointed cause i can't process an SSN card and she told me that we'll just explain it during interview. Some of my friends also told me that it would be alright, we'll just show them and tell them what we've got but still it didn't help to make me feel better. I still felt this weird feeling even though the interview is still far. I will just pray then and see what happens.
Tuesday, April 21, 2009
Monday, April 20, 2009
It was my first time to ride a bike since i had try one before so my husband was there and hold me to not fell down. I had try practising a bike riding before when i was in my high school but i stop cause I'm so scared to get crashed and be wounded. But today i really need to practise how to do it cause i wanted to learn in it. It was really fun and it took more than two hours until i knew how to balance but not so quiet yet so i still need to get practise. His uncle gave us the bike that I've been using for me to practise here in our neighborhood. Oh my whole body is so sore specially my butt and i would say this would be worse tomorrow. But i was glad that i did learn how to balance and i could drive now even though I'm not that good yet and i will try my best to practise more cause i wanted to learn.
Thursday, April 16, 2009
For me, plants and trees makes the world looks wonderful, green, and alive. Without them, our world will be like a dead place and not good to live with. I love nature, watching those trees, plants, flowers,etc. makes my heart glow and feel wonderful. So when rainy days happen in this dry place, it would be so wonderful to smell the breeze and you can also see that the trees and the flowers were lovely to look at and it looks so green and peaceful.
Monday, April 13, 2009
After that, we headed to our house but my husband still wants to play a war craft with john in their computer so they just drop us off and then they left. I change my blouse really quick cause i smell bad and then after, we headed to john's house. While our husband's were playing war craft, i and Mechelle had no other idea but to sing in their karaoke just for fun. They order some pizza and hot wings so after a while it arrived and then we eat. When we're done eating, the guys back to their game. I and Mechelle had decided to watch a movie. After we watch a movie, i felt really tired an wanted to go home so i went upstairs where the guys play and tell my partner that we need to get going cause it's getting late. We arrived home for almost three in the morning but we still need to get shower done. I think i fall asleep at around three so when i wake up this morning my head was aching so i told my hubby to stay with me in bed and i still have to go back to sleep hoping that my headaches will gone. So when i woke up again, it's almost twelve in the afternoon but my headache were still there. I couldn't even get up but i have to cause I'm running out time to prepare myself. So i rush getting up and then took a shower cause pretty soon my friend will come and pick me up and head to the party.
Thursday, April 9, 2009
Oh my goodness, my days were always busy because i still have this cross stitch that my mother in law left for me and needed so much time to made it done. But i like to play this pogo games so here i am now, can't take off my hands playing. I think my husband felt bored waiting for me to watch a movie, so what he did was he decided to come over John's house to play war craft in their computer. GOSH... He just left me here alone again but it's OK anyway i don't feel good going outside cause i have my period and my stomach is upset. He told me that he needs to enjoy too so he likes playing with John in the computer. He ask me to come with him but i choose to not go cause as what i had said above i don't feel good. I told him not to stay late there cause I'm not going upstairs alone, I'm scared alone here specially at night ( kay talawan lage..) it's better if it's daytime i can handle being alone.Oh well i guess i may have to go now and watch some TV shows and wait for my husband to come home.
Sunday, April 5, 2009
Because I'm all alone in the house during weekdays, i always get up late it's because i can't sleep early at night. Today, i got up a little early nine in the morning and prepare my breakfast. For me, it's a little early because i usually get up like ten and sometimes 12 in the afternoon. My husband call me sleepy head and it's sounds funny so i told him to not call me that, he just like to make fun on me. But i practise myself to get up early by making my alarm on because i wanted to do something early so that i could do a lot of things during daytime. At first, it works but later on it didn't work for me because when my alarm ring i turn it off and then back to sleep again. He told me that his mother and i have a lot in common like staying late at night watching some shows and get up so late in the morning. Yeah he's right i and my mother in law were not a big morning person.
When she was here having a vacation for over a month , she really stays late at night than me and watch those shows that she always like to watch. But what i wonder for her was that she always get up earlier than me and i kinda embarrass for that because when i went downstairs she's already seating on the couch watching TV. I supposed to get up early and prepare something for her breakfast but it doesn't really happen until she left for going back home. Oh boy this is always what i wanted to change, getting up early for me to do something more on daytime.
Thursday, April 2, 2009
We've had just finish watching a movie with my husband and it's not late yet so i decided to open this blog and update this because it's been a couple of weeks since i last update. I really felt frustrated with myself of what i had act on this day and last night. My partner felt upset with me and i didn't like watching him like that because it makes me feel hurt and sad. Every time we got on this situation, we were so silent and it seems like there is nobody around because we both didn't like chatting each other. I would say we both have the same way if we got upset or mad, we didn't argue nor talk. I hate argument and he does too so that's it and i know that it will just be gone on the next day. But now, we're both in good mood and he doesn't mad at me anymore and I'm glad. He is watching his favorite show while I'm here in front of the computer thinking of what i had to write. Well i guess i have to go now and take a shower really quick and then go to bed and watch some shows before i felt so sleepy, that's my every night routine lol..